Gone are the days when “eloping” means rushing to the courthouse to get married or a secret Vegas ceremony. Today, adventure elopements are all about ditching tradition and exchanging vows in the most breathtaking, wild places on earth- whether that’s on a windswept cliff, under towering redwoods, or beside a clear alpine lake.

Unlike traditional weddings, adventure elopements are intimate, intentional, and deeply personal. They’re not about pleasing a crowd- they’re about celebrating your love in a way that feels true to who you are as a couple. And as an adventure elopement photographer, i’ve seen firsthand how powerful these experiences can be. There’s something magical about saying “i do” with nothing but the sound of crashing waves or rustling leaves as your backdrop.

Is "eloping" right for you?

Eloping isn't for everyone- but if you've ever dreamed of:

+ a wedding that feels authentically you
+ saying your vows in an unforgettable location
+ skipping the stress and expense of a big wedding
+ prioritizing adventure and intimacy over tradition

+ a wedding that feels authentically you

+ saying your vows in an unforgettable location

+ skipping the stress and expense of a big wedding

+ prioritizing adventure and intimacy over tradition

then this guide is for you!

What's inside this guide?

I’ll walk you through everything you need to plan the perfect adventure elopement, from choosing your dream location to picking the right gear (yes, you can wear a wedding dress and hiking boots!). Whether you’re dreaming of a desert sunrise ceremony or a misty forest vow exchange, I’ll help you make it happen- without the overwhelm.

Ready to ditch the rules and plan the wedding you’ve always wanted? Let’s dive in.

Table of Contents

+ What is an elopement?
+ why choose an adventure elopement
+ step-by-step guide to planning your elopement
   + step 1: decide what your dream elopement looks like
   + step 2: choose your elopement location
   + step 3: hire an adventure elopement photographer
   + step 4: plan your elopement timeline
   + step 5: what to wear for an adventure elopement
   + step 6: handling the legal stuff
   + step 7: elopement vendors to consider
   + step 8: celebrate after
+ common elopement myths debunked
+ FAQ's when planning an adventure elopement
+ Final tips for an unforgettable adventure elopement experience
   + why this will be your best decision
   + final tips

What is an elopement?

Gone are the days when eloping meant sneaking off to get married in secret. Modern elopements are intentional, meaningful celebrations where couples choose to prioritize their love story over tradition.

At its core, an elopement is:

+ a wedding entirely about your connection (no obligatory guest list)

+ held anywhere in the world (mountaintops > banquet halls)

+ Designed around what matters most to you (adventure, intimacy, freedom)

While traditional weddings average $35,000+ and 18 months of planning... elopements offer:

+ complete creative control
+ zero family/political stress
+ budget flexibility

the secret? elopements aren't "less than" a wedding- they're more. more authentic. more adventurous. more you.

How Elopements have Evolved

why choose an adventure elopement?

adventure elopements are surging in popularity- and for good reason! more couples are ditching traditional weddings for meaningful, nature-filled celebrations that reflect who they truly are.

Here's Why an Adventure Elopement Might be Perfect for You:

1: It's 100% about you two

Traditional weddings often become about pleasing guests- seating charts, dietary restrictions, family expectations. An adventure elopement strips all that away.

no compromises- every decision is yours.

no performance anxiety- just raw, real emotions.

no distractions- only the two of you (and maybe a photographer) in a breathtaking place

2: Better wedding photos

epic nature backdrops > hotel ballroom

more time for amazing portraits

photos that document the emotion not just the venue

3: Less stress, more meaning

4: Adventure built in

Why stress about: months of planning, pleasing 100+ guests, having a rigid schedule, "wedding industry" pressures...

When you could have: only the people who truly matter, time to actually enjoy your day, more intentional moments.

There's something magical about committing your lives together while on an adventure:
+ get married at sunrise on a mountain
+ say vows under a waterfall
+ share a private picnic with epic views.
These shared moments create core memories that last far longer than a reception playlist.

5: surprisingly budget-friendly

Where traditional weddings spend:

$5000+ on catering
$3000+ on flowers
$10,000+ on a venue

Adventure elopements let you invest in what matters:

+ an incredible location (often free or low-cost)
+ epic photos you'll cherish forever
+ an unforgettable experience (helicopter ride, anyone?)

average traditional wedding:  $35,000

average adventure elopement: $5,000-$15,000

6: no rules, just you

the best part about an adventure elopement is that you make the rules. want to go horseback riding in your wedding dress? kayaking in an alpine lake? or maybe say your vows on the top of a mountain? you can do whatever you want!

The Bottom Line:

An adventure elopement isn't "the easy way out" It's the most intentional way in. It's for couples that value experience over things, partners who feel the most connected outdoors. it's for those who dread being the center of attention and for anyone wanting to start married life with an adventure.

It's choosing a wedding day that feels as extraordinary as your love.

Step 1: Decide What your Dream Elopement Looks Like

"what does our perfect wedding day feel like?"

Adventurous? peaceful? wild?

"where do we feel the most connected?"

Mountains? beaches? Forests?

"who absolutely needs to be there?"

just you two? a few loved ones? your dog?

Start by asking yourselves:

Action steps:

+ create a mood board: scour pinterest and instagram

+ write down your non-negotiables  (e.g., "we must have mountain views")

+ Decide on your level of adventure (easy-access vs full-day hike)

Pro tip: if you're stuck, think of your favorite date or trip together- that's often a great place to start!

Step 2: Choose your Elopement Location

Some things to consider:

A. Permits & Legalities

National parks & public lands: most require permits (be sure to apply early!)

Private property: get written permission from landowners

international elopements: make sure to research marriage laws

Pro tip: have a backup spot nearby in case of weather closures

b. Accessibility & difficulty

Easy access: short walks for a stress-free experience

Moderate hike: 30 min - 2 hours (pack light, wear sturdy shoes)

Full adventure: multi-hour trek with activities (sunrise to sunset experience)

c. best time of day

Sunrise:
Fewer people, magical light

Sunset:
warmer temps, golden hour

Midday:
only recommended for forested/shaded spots

Top Adventure Elopement Locations:

Glacier national park, olympic national park, moab utah, the oregon coast

iceland, scottish highlands, new zealand

Step 3: Hire an Adventure Elopement Photographer

Adventure elopements need someone who:

+ knows how to hike and shoot at altitude
+ understands changing light and weather
+ can find the most epic hidden spots
+ makes you feel comfortable in wild places

let's be real: most wedding photographers aren't prepared for muddy trails or 4 am sunrise hikes!

WHy you need a specialized adventure photographer

your photographer isn't just a vendor- they're your location scout, timeline planner, and adventure guide all in one. They're your secret weapon for an unforgettable elopement. here's why this choice matters- and why i'd love to be yours.

Adventure elopements need someone who:

+ knows how to hike and shoot at altitude

+ understands changing light and weather

+ can find the most epic hidden spots

+ makes you feel comfortable in wild places

let's be real: most wedding photographers aren't prepared for muddy trails or 4 am sunrise hikes!

Location expert: I'm able to scout the best spots in whatever location you choose

Timing pro: i know exactly when the light hits each mountain

storyteller: I document real moments, not just stiff poses

adventure buddy: i carry emergency gear so you don't have to

Why hire me?

+ a stress-free planning experience
+ insider knowledge of the best views
+ photos that feel like you- adventurous, romantic and totally authentic

The couples that I work with get:

Step 1: Tell me your dream! mountains? forest? beach?

Step 2: I'll handle the details- permits, timing, secret spots

Step 3: we adventure together- i'll guide you while still letting you enjoy your day

Step 4: relive your day- get photos you'll treasure forever

How it Works:

Step 4: Plan your Adventure Elopement Timeline

8 hour elopement timeline example:

Key tips:
+ build in buffer time (hikes take longer in wedding attire)
+ prioritize golden hour (let's get you the best wedding photos possible!)
+ keep it flexible (weather, tired legs, or just time to bask in the moment)

5:00 am: meet at trailhead

5:15 am: start hiking to the first location

5:45 am: change into wedding attire

6:00 am: sunrise first look followed by portraits & exploring

7:00 am: hike to second location

7:30 am: private vows followed by portraits & exploring

8:30 am: hike back to trailhead

9:00 am: morning coverage ends

5:30 pm: head to ceremony location, stop along the way for photos

6:30 pm: arrive at ceremony location, ceremony begins

7:00 pm: small picnic

7:30 pm: portraits & exploring

9:00 pm: stargazing & astrophotography

9:30 pm: photo coverage wraps up

2-day elopement timeline example

Day 1:

5:30 am: meet at location one & change into wedding attire

6:00 am: sunrise first look in location one followed by portraits

7:00 am: head to location two (15 minute drive)

7:15 am: arrive at the trailhead, gear up

7:30 am: begin hike, taking portraits along the way (2 mile hike in)

9:30 am: arrive at view point for ceremony & picnic brunch

12:00 pm: hike back to the trailhead, taking portraits along the way (2 miles back out)

1:30 pm: arrive back at trailhead, head to location three (45 minute drive)

2:15 pm: arrive at location three for exploring & kayaking

5:30 pm: return kayaks, photo coverage wraps up

Day 2:

6:00 am: meet at helicopter pad to check in

6:30 am: helicopter take off, flight one

7:00 am: land at location one for portraits

8:00 am: take off, flight two

8:30 am: land at location two for portraits

9:30 am: take off, flight three

10:00 am: land at helicopter pad, photo coverage wraps up

Step 5: What to Wear for an Adventure Elopement

Dresses: Lightweight, flowy fabrics (avoid long trains for hiking)

Suits: breathable materials, consider rolled sleeves or ditching the tie

Shoes: sturdy boots for trails or barefoot for the beach

Layers: wraps, leather jackets or capes for cold weather

Bridal outfits that work best for epic photos:

Packing list essentials:

+ stain remover pen

+ safety pins

+ comfy shoes for after

Pro tip: make sure to break in your shoes before the big day!

Step 7: Elopement Vendors to Consider

+ Photographer (essential)

+ officiant (if needed)

+ Florist (for a bouquet or ceremony arch)

+ hair & makeup artist (travel-friendly options)

Step 8: Celebrate After!

private dinner (scenic airbnb or chef prepared meal

bucket list experience (helicopter tour, hot air balloon)

Cozy campfire (s'mores and stargazing)

Post-Elopement Ideas:

how to announce your elopement with loved ones:

Photo postcards

adventure video

casual party or reception later

if you're looking for more ways you can include family & friends on your wedding day check out this blog post:

Common elopement myths debunked

Adventure elopements are becoming more popular, but there are still plenty of misconceptions. Let’s set the record straight- so you can make the best decision for your wedding day.

Myth #1: "Eloping is selfish"

Reality: your wedding should be about you two- not pleasing everyone

+ guests will understand if you explain your vision

+ you can always host a celebration later

+ many couples say eloping strengthened family relationships by removing wedding drama

Final Truth: Eloping isn't "running away" - it's running towards what matters.

your wedding should reflect your love- not outdated expectations

Myth #2: "Eloping means no effort or planning"

Reality: Elopements take different planning not less

you're trading seating charts for:

+ permit research

+ weather contingencies

+ adventure logistics

Tip: many couples hire planners or photographers (like me!) to handle the details

Myth #3: "It's just a quick courthouse wedding"

Reality: modern elopements are intentional, meaningful experiences

You can still have:

+ vows that make you cry

+ a first dance under the stars

+ a private gourmet dinner

Some couples spend a full week adventuring together

Myth #4: "You'll regret not having a big wedding"

Reality: Most eloping couples say it's the best decision they've ever made

+ no stress over guest lists or traditions you don't care about

+ more budget for what matters like travel, photos, and experiences

+ memories that feel authentic- not performative

Myth #5: "Eloping is always cheaper"

reality:  an elopement can be budget-friendly, but some splurge on:

+ Helicopter elopements

+ luxury photography packages

+ multi-day adventures

the difference? You're spending on what you value- not what tradition demands

Myth #6: "The photos won't be as good"

reality: adventure elopement photos are next level epic!

+ no rushed timeline = more time for creative shots

+ nature provides the best "venue" no tacky decor needed

+ golden hour in the mountains > fluorescent ballroom lighting

Frequently Asked questions when planning an adventure elopement

Can we bring guests?

absolutely! it's your day!

intimate (0-10 people): easier for remote locations
Larger groups (10-20 people): need accessible spots & permits

pro tip: consider a post-elopement party if you want to celebrate with more people

What if the weather is bad?

adventure elopements embrace the elements!

Rain plan: clear umbrellas make for romantic photos
wind: flowy dresses and veils look epic blowing in the breeze
snow/fog: creates moody, magical vibes

backup options:
+ choose a location with sheltered spots like forests or canyon walls
+ schedule flexibility, we can shift timing if needed

How do we get legally married?

at your elopement spot:

+ Get a marriage license locally, some states require witnesses
+ self-solemnize in places like colorado or pennsylvania

at home first:

You can do the legal paperwork beforehand and get married in the courthouse. this allows for flexibility and less stress the day of!

What time of day is best?

sunrise: fewer crowds, soft light

sunset: warmer tones, but more people

midday: only in shaded areas (forests, canyons or if the weather is cloudy)

keep in mind: some locations look their best at a specific time of day. make sure to check with your photographer on what time is best

Will we regret not having a traditional wedding?

What couples actually say:

"we remember every moment- no blur of greeting 100+ people"

"the photos captured us, not just a party"

"we spent our budget on an epic trip instead of chair rentals"

Fact: most couples say they'd elope again!

Final tips for an unforgettable adventure elopement experience

Your wedding day should be a reflection of your love story- authentic, adventurous, and entirely yours. An elopement isn’t about skipping tradition; it’s about creating a new one.

Why this will be your best decision

Your rules, your way: no compromises, every detail is chosen intentionally

deeper connection: without distractions, you'll truly feel every moment

photos that tell your story: not just portraits- images that transport you back to how it felt

Final Tips:

+ prioritize what matters- spend on a photographer and a location- skip anything that doesn't spark joy

+ embrace the unexpected- rain? wind? snow? these often create the most epic photos and memories

+ slow down- pause often to soak it in

+ personalize the tiny details- write vows together or carry something meaningful

+ document everything- record video memos or press a flower from your bouquet

+ celebrate after- do a "first adventure" instead of a first dance. go kayaking, cliff jumping, stargazing

A Personal Invitation

An as adventure elopement photographer, i’ve seen how these days become the best days of a couples life. Not just “our wedding”, but “that time we got married on a beach at sunset” or “the sunrise that turned the mountains gold as we said yes”

If you're ready to:

+ trade stress for pure joy

+ turn your wedding into an epic adventure

+ get photos that make you say "this is so us"

Let's make it happen. I'll handle the logistics- you just show up and love each other

Hey! I'm Katie, your adventure elopement photographer

Need help planning your elopement?